Selfie. It’s just like an autobiography. Except, the product is a photo, not a written essay – right, that’s called a “self-portrait.” Well, with almost every word being shortened as our lifestyles became faster-paced, “self-portrait” was not left behind. Thus, the birth of the modern term “selfie.” And how popular they have become.
Just the other day, I read an article, saying that those who post these selfies are “narcissistic” and/or have a “mental illness…” This is critical! Although there are no diagnoses including the word “selfie,” to prescribe treatment, “OCD” and “body dysmorphia” are the medical references. On the flipside, others are believed to be posting these picture, in search of themselves; not seeking constant approval from the [social media] audience. For the disability community, I agree with the latter statement. It is too often that folks are being bullied for what they look like – for being different. But selfies seem to facilitate self-discovery, pride and accomplishment, and solidarity. In 2014, Bethany Turner, a [now] 24-year old model with Crohn’s disease posted pictures of herself in a bikini. “Okay… Isn’t that what models do?” Yes, but if you’re not familiar with it, Crohn’s disease affects the bowels, resulting in the use of a colostomy bag. Someone with a colostomy bag would be more likely to pose in such a way that hides it (i.e. from the mid-region, up.) Bethany chose to share a full body photo, to bring awareness of Crohn’s disease to the public, and show pride in the life she leads – hoping to empower others using colostomy bags.
Do you take selfies? Perhaps, you’re not feeling confident enough. Try researching someone with your same disability. Maybe their pride can channel to you. Don’t try too hard though; you’re great, just the way you are!
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